2023 another year without goals

I'm repeating this title because I'm repeating the strategy from last year. But what instead of goals...

2022 was a very successful year. Without focusing on goals, I consciously or less consciously created a life on my own terms.

I dealt with burdens, took responsibility for my life and gradually began to focus on the process itself, not the result.

I traveled, spent time with loved ones, created a place for myself to work on my own terms.

Instead of goals , I focused on three leading words.

Three words for 2023 - motto for life

Explore

Getting to know myself. I discovered that with sincere analysis, and exploration of yourself , you are able to find all the answers and ways to live peacefully. This constant work of getting to know yourself is difficult, but the process leads you to amazing conclusions. You don't have to pretend anything, you focus on action and what comes out of you, and then you start creating a life in accordance with your values and beliefs.

I realized one day that I am the best source of knowledge about myself. Not instagram, not influencers or family or even friends. The best way to learn about myself is to ask myself questions. Making one-on-one dates and exploring myself. Ask questions, about your values, your beliefs, what you like and don't like, what gives you energy and when you have the most energy, what you desire and what motivates you every day.

If you don't know where to start reach for the questions I've prepared for you.

Reflections and questions to start explorations.

Create

I decided to stop copying the lifestyles and values of others and focus on creating my own. I stopped copying recipes for a successful life, for productivity, for efficiency, and started creating a high-performance self.

Instead of copying ways to live a successful life from others, if you have already done the appropriate work on getting to know yourself, on the basis of the information gained create your own systems , rules, prescriptions, tailored to suit yourself. Don't let inspiration suffocate your own creation of reality.

Live

I simply started living what is here and now. Day by day, here and now, step by step. I took control over my life, over my decisions and desires. I focused on daily activities, small steps, minimal changes and consistently took responsibility for myself and sometimes for others. Act, make mistakes, fix them and live again , and make mistakes again, and so on and so forth. Do not chase happiness by force, and you yourself will see that it will appear unexpectedly.

Most importantly, control what you can control, take full responsibility for your life, make mistakes, learn from them and focus on the process, not the result. Be good to yourself and others and create goodness. Serve others in your daily life, trust yourself and your intuition and repeat....

Was it easy. No. Was it worth it. Yes. Do I want to repeat it this year. definitely.

Now the focus is on the process, and the end result is just a side reward.

Wish you all the best,

MDL